Tuesday, January 16, 2018

The One Where I Rant About TV Couples

Ross and Rachel do not belong together. Neither do Big and Carrie. Nor Ted and Robin (ESPECIALLY NOT THEM).

And the fact that these are the TV couples that people rooted for "ending up together" is just so dysfunctional it makes me want to scream.

Let's go through the checklist. (Warning: lots of spoilers ahead.)

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  • Ross has a huge crush on Rachel in high school.
    Cute.
  • Ross gets the girl 10 years later.
    Super cute.
  • Ross gets unreasonably jealous. Over Rachel pursuing her career (because men work there).
    Really not cute. 
  • Ross sleeps with someone 3 hours into a "break". (Note: not BREAK UP, just break).
    Actually awful.
  • Ross and Rachel stay in the same friend circle through breaking up.
    Awkward at best.
  • Neither of them really moves on. Even though he goes on a date with her sister.
    Unhealthy. 
  • Ross and Rachel have a baby.
    I can't comment on this without being an a-hole, so I'll refrain. 
  • Ross and Rachel end up together at the very last moment.
    THE WORST.  
And you see it over and over again.

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  • Carrie meets Big. Does he believe in love? "Abso-fuckin-lutely".
    I guess the grown-up version of cute. 
  • Carrie dates Big.
    Okay-ish. 
  • Big never wants to get married (again). They break up.
    This is not so bad, they wanted different things. 
  • Big marries a 20-something lady. After saying he never wanted to get married again. He's like Chris-Noth-post-already-had-a-career-in-Law-&-Order old.
    What? 
  • He's married. She meets Aidan, a man who is just too good for her (note below). They cheat.
    Awful. 
  • They go back and forth for the better part of a million years.
    Ugh. 
  • Neither of them really moves on.
    Sad. Not meant in sympathy, more like pathetic sad. 
  • He realizes no one else in New York City will really have him (because he's tried them all). Goes back to Carrie. Proposes.
    Eh.
  • Oh. Then he leaves her at the altar.
    ARE YOU KIDDING ME? AFTER ALL THESE YEARS? STILL CAN'T COMMIT?
  • But buys her expensive shoes.
    That's how you know it's true love. Then they live happily ever after, obviously. 
RE: Aidan. He is actually the stuff that dream men are made of, and in the show, this is seen as boring.

I'm not ready to get into Ted and Robin. Barney and Robin were good together, as anyone could see and likely the reason the creators spent a whole year leading up to their wedding... Obviously to exploit their audience for ratings, just before doing what they wanted to in the first place. (My only point here is that if they felt their original ending was necessary to keep, then they should have done better work as writers to lead the audience there instead of pandering for the better part of nine years only to in the last minute go in the opposite direction. It's stupid.) 

It's just all unhealthy. And promotes this concept of the best relationships being epic sagas with so much tug and war, that it dilutes the magic of the every day. And it just really annoys me that people buy into this TV BS. 

I know we all know the difference between television, and the cat and mouse chase that makes everything so much more interesting. It's why I won't fully rip on Derek and Meredith. But I wish Monica and Chandler would get their kudos more often. Or Miranda and Steve (who still have a lot of growing pains but you know, not destructive and awful). I do feel Lily and Marshall get their kudos (which is well deserved) because that's about as good as TV love can get. 

/End rant. 

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